Success is a word thrown around often, but what does it take to achieve it? Is it luck, talent, or something more? In a recent conversation with high-performance expert Kurt Bush, we uncovered the raw truth about what separates the winners from the rest—and it’s not what you think.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re working hard but not making progress, this article will change your thoughts about success forever.
Why Most People Fail
One of the most eye-opening moments in the conversation was when Kurt shared the biggest mistake that keeps people stuck: fear of change.
“Most people stay stuck because they fear change more than failure,” Kurt explained.
This fear shows up in subtle ways: staying in a job that makes you miserable, refusing to take risks, or waiting for the ‘perfect time’ to start that business, fitness routine, or passion project. But here’s the truth—there is no perfect time. The people who succeed are the ones who take action even when they don’t feel ready.
“The difference between winners and losers? Mindset and discipline,” Kurt said. “Winners take action before they feel ready. Losers wait until the opportunity has passed.”
The Myth of Motivation
A common excuse people use for not pursuing their goals is a lack of motivation. However, according to Kurt, motivation is a myth. “You don’t need motivation—you need consistency.”
Successful people don’t wake up every day feeling inspired. They follow a system, stick to habits, and stay disciplined even when they don’t feel like it.
So, how do you build discipline? Start small.
Wake up 30 minutes earlier and use that time productively.
Replace 10 minutes of social media scrolling with reading something that educates you.
Set non-negotiable habits, like daily exercise or learning a new skill.
It’s the small, consistent actions over time that create massive results.
Hard Work Alone Won’t Get You There
Many people believe success is simply about working harder. But Kurt challenged that idea: “Hard work alone won’t get you there—you need the right plan.”
Working hard in the wrong direction leads to burnout, not success. Instead, successful people:
✔ Work smarter by focusing on high-impact activities.
✔ Seek mentors who have already achieved what they want.
✔ Adapt quickly instead of sticking to failing strategies.
“The people who win are the ones who take action, adjust their strategy, and never stop learning,” Kurt said.
The Confidence Code
One of the most powerful moments in the conversation was when Kurt broke down the secret to confidence. “Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build.”
True confidence comes from taking action, facing challenges, and proving to yourself that you’re capable. The more you step outside your comfort zone, the more confident you will grow.
So, if you’re waiting to ‘feel ready’ before taking your next big step, stop. Confidence comes after action, not before.
Success is a Choice
At the end of the conversation, Kurt challenged us: “Are you playing to win, or just playing not to lose?”
Success isn’t reserved for a lucky few—it’s a formula. It requires action, discipline, wise decision-making, and the courage to step into discomfort.
So ask yourself: What small step can you take today that moves you closer to your goals? Then do it. Your future self will thank you.
Are you ready to take control of your success? Let’s make it happen.
Watch the full podcast episode on YouTube.